I think the fact that I know what I want or rather what I don’t want is a good thing. I think that the fact that I know that I do not want to have children is good because if and when I ever get into a relationship again and the man asks if I want children I can confidently say no. I do not want to hold back someone who wants to have children and he needs to know that I am not willingly gonna reproduce. But again like I said if it were to happen it wouldn’t be the end of the world and I would welcome that little baby into my life.
I do not think so not at all. I think actually that it means that I know what I want in life.
Now this may sound selfish but whatever.
like love my life.
I like the fact that if I want to get up and go somewhere I do not have to worry about who’s gonna watch the kids or who is available to babysit. I like knowing that at the drop of a hat I can do whatever I want and go where ever I want because I am not responsible for another human. I like knowing if I wanna have a drink or two or three I do not have to worry about if the baby or kids are ok because there are none to worry about.
Ya know what else?
Again it may sound selfish to some but you will get over it.
Remember this is MY life MY way after all.
I have worked to hard to get myself into the most healthy person I can be. I have fought tooth and nail to loose weight and to be flat out honest I do not want to gain a ounce of that back. I do not want to have to gain 15-30 pounds to have to loose it again. Selfish? Maybe. Truthful? DEFINITELY!
Does me not wanting kids mean that I don’t like other peoples kids?
NO WAY NOT AT ALL!
That could not be farther from the truth! In fact truth be told I love kids I really do. I love my brothers kids, I love my friends kids. I have no problem being around kids either. I will get down on the ground and play with them for hours on end. I will even babysit my friends kids or my brothers kids. But I love knowing that I can give them back. I can spoil them and return them to their parents.
So yeah I can honestly say that coming on 30 I am happily single and child free and if I were to stay that way for the rest of my life I would be totally fine with it.