The Time I Went Bat Shit Crazy

OK so check it friends I know I am usually all light hearted and happy go lucky on the blog but sometimes something happens or someone says something and it really just hits a nerve. 
Well yesterday someone said something to me and it just set me off. 
Let me set the scene for you…
Yesterday, lunch time I am sitting at my desk minding my own business eating my lunch which consisted of turkey chili, baby carrots, cut up red, yellow, and orange peppers, grapes and a cutie. 
I’m working and enjoying my lunch -which I HATE the fact that I eat my lunch WHILE I am working but whatever- and one of my asshat coworkers walks by…
“Eating a lot there Nikki…”

Now, normally I would just keep my mouth shut and let comments like that roll of my back like water off a duck but I have had it with said asshat and his stupid effin comments. 
I went bat shit crazy on his ass.

REALLY?!?! You really need to get the f*ck off my back and keep your stupid ass comments to yourself asshat. Ya really wanna go here? Lets look at this. I have turkey chili that I made at home so there for I know EXACTLY what is in it and I can guarantee you there is nothing bad in it and it is not processed. Can you say that about your fat laden chicken parm that is enough for 3 people that you ordered? Lets not even touch the fact that you and I both know that you will eat it all at lunch time instead of bringing some of it home. I also have baby carrots, cut up peppers, to dip in hummus which is also homemade so there fore again I know EXACTLY what is in it and it is not processed. I also have some fruit. You on the other hand have a CREAM based soup that is enough again for easily 2 or 3 people which again you and I both know you are gonna eat the entire container. I think you really need to check yourself, keep your comments to yourself, and get the f*ck away from my desk.”
Said asshat hung his head in shame and walked away.
Now I know that may have come across mean but let me just say this…
It is no secret that I used to be fat. Yes FAT. But today I am 130 pound lighter. I know what I can and can not eat. I know what I like. I know I ENJOY eating healthy. I know that the food I am putting in my body is whole and healthy unlike the crap these guys at work order. No one NO ONE has any right to say two words about what I am eating. My parents do not even say anything to me so what in your right mind makes you think it is okay to say something?!?! 
And because that was not enough of a verbal ass whooping.
Later in the day I was going over my track for my upcoming BodyPump training -I have biceps and lunges more on that later- and I am standing at my desk doing the moves and said asshat walks by…
“Nik, don’t ya think you over do it with all the working out you do?”
“Listen asshat, you and I clearly do not see eye to eye on food choices and work out choices and ya know what that is perfectly fine. With that said what is not fine is the fact that you do not know when to SHUT THE F*CK UP. 
“SERIOUSLY! You really need to just stop. I do not need your stupid comments. I do not need you policing what I am eating or how much I am working out. I am healthy, happy and fit and that is all that I care about. I care about my body and my health. You may not but I do. Don’t worry yourself with what I am doing and do me a favor from now on when you walk past my desk do not even look at what I am doing. I really do not want to have these conversations again with you. 
Now I know all of this is coming from his own insecurities but really people need to keep their dumb ass comments to themselves. Growing up I was tormented by kids about my weight. I was the fat kid. I was picked last for everything. Whatever. What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger right? I over came that and today and so much more healthier and happier. Yet I still get stupid ass comments about my weight, my food choices and my work out decisions and to be honest its f*cking annoying. I mean I know I am not going to make everyone happy and ya know what I am totally fine with it but keep your comments to yourself.

Moral of the story?
Do not comment on my choices be it food, workout, or anything for that matter. 

  Hugs, Nikki

I have 14 Lovely Comments, I would love to have yours... on The Time I Went Bat Shit Crazy

  1. avatar
    P!nky says:
    April 10, 2013

    UGH BARF dude, just BARF!!!! Who does he think he is!?!?

    First, I’m glad you shared this. You are a strong woman and seeing you stand up for yourself is awesome. Don’t get me wrong, letting stuff fall off your back is a testament to strength too, but I”m glad you put him in his place.

    People need to shut it. The only time someone can comment on your food intake is if you’ve been complaining about not losing weight and you AREN’T eating healthy. Other than that, back the EFFFF UP!

    GOOD FOR YOU!!!! <3 and hugs!

  2. avatar
    April 10, 2013

    You tell him girl! Then if you want me to I will tell him again! People just don’t think about their little comments and how they can be annoying. YOU ROCK!

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    lindyc13 says:
    April 10, 2013

    You go girl!! Sometimes people just need to be told to mind their own business!

  4. avatar
    Tara says:
    April 10, 2013

    That guy sucks. Good for you for saying something most people would have said nothing and then simmered about it for days. You spoke your mind and that ROCKS! That guy still sucks though….

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    Michael says:
    April 10, 2013

    Well I DO have a few comments… you eat a lot… which is because you work out a lot…which is because your body needs energy…and the food choices your making are the best ones possible to give you the energy to power through all those workouts. Get it girl!

    I hate when people make these stupid ass remarks. Don’t jump on make back for making smart choices because you refuse to do the same.

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    SEL says:
    April 10, 2013

    Remind me not to comment on your food or workout choices. 😉

    But seriously, good for you for sticking up for yourself. I know this guy has said things before and you just bit your tongue.

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    Mary Long says:
    April 10, 2013

    Good for you for setting him straight! Some people need to keep their mouths shut. Your choices are your own. I have food police in my office too. She is always making nose down comments about what I am eating or how much. Then I have a guy who feels the need to bring me food! Growing up in a family that used to get holiday food baskets from the church, I find that action very offensive. So I understand where you coming from.
    I hope your asshat got the point and stays away. If not, I fear for his life- LOL

  8. avatar
    April 10, 2013

    You and I must be on the same wavelength today – I posted about people’s words too. This guy had it coming. What a jerk!!
    Plus I eat way more when I’m eating clean and filling up on fruits and veggies instead of unhealthy food.

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    shay says:
    April 10, 2013

    asshat is too nice of a word for that jerk off!! i’m so glad you put him in his place! ugh! that is so not cool, and so not his business how much or what you eat or how much you work out!

  10. avatar
    Kenya says:
    April 10, 2013

    Do I need to go there and punch him in the face?

  11. avatar
    Jen says:
    April 10, 2013

    WOW! What a dirtbag, good for you for standing up for yourself. I probably would have thrown the turkey chili at him lol.

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    Janna Renee says:
    April 12, 2013

    You TELL him! That guy really is an asshat and he’s just jealous. That or he has a crush on you and is acting like a teenager. Either way…EFF that guy!

  13. avatar
    April 15, 2013

    Good for you for sticking up for yourself!!! No one has any right to criticize you. I think you did the right thing and I hoped he learned his lesson!

  14. avatar
    April 16, 2013

    Woohoo!!!! Go you! Seriously, WTF is wrong with people?! It’s so not okay to make comments like that to other people. Good job giving him a verbal beat down!

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